I have heard tales of how unproductive some FA meetings were, with people sitting around in a circle of chairs bemoaning everything from little church indignities they'd suffered to financial and personal disasters incurred under their church's aegis, and of course, the occaisional ranting fundie turned atheist. A lot of steam was let out and probably very little light shed at such gatherings, and the original FA had branches around the country. Perhaps, with the continuing rise of the Religious Right and their bestsellers and bookstores and mega churches and mindless minions, that the time is probably ripe for another FA leader to arise and testify before Congress, just as Richard Yao did when Jerry Fallwell's Moral Majority was making waves.
But I still suspect that working one on one with friends is the best way any of us can come to see the true light.
In general, the only books or ideas that influence us are those for which we are ready for, and which have gone just a tad bit futher down our particular path than we have gone ourselves -- This is especially true when a person is changing from a more rigid to a less rigid position on various issues. We don't break out of rigidity easily, though it's relatively easy to fall into a rigid mindset on any number of issues and beliefs. We hypnotize ourselves into thinking there is only one reality tunnel very easily, and further hypnotize ourselves into thinking they we have found the right one, all others be damned. (Read E. M. Cioran, A Short History of Decay, or Robert Anton Wilson, Prometheus Rising and the sequel, Quamtum Psychology for more info.)
Best, Edward T. Babinski
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